The changes with my thinking about positive thinking comes as a slap in the face to me, and I apologize if you feel the same way. Truth is not easy to swallow sometimes. To think that the thinking that works better is a bit more in the gray area is perhaps not as exciting or romantic in the way it might come across. I am sure there is some logic to it, but the new theory does sound kinda counter-logical. It shows me once again that things are rarely what they seem. How the human mind is sometimes less capable than we would like it to be. How we might miss and think our aim is perfect. Sorry if this is a bit confounding. Believe me, my own experience might be worse. Hard for even me. I feel slightly ashamed for being off for so long.