The opposite of a complex is something else. Maybe a thought that makes you feel strong and able to have a life that is terrific. Insecurity, inferiority issues, irrational fears can grow into giant black holes that suck your soul. Shoot your power laser at these big blocks in the road without hesitation, it could save you from great stress and pain. You have the right to feel good about yourself and confident that you can do just about anything and that any obstacle that gets in your way can be defeated fairly easily. Blast that pscho-babble into oblivion. It just sucks the life out of you. You have an important life with great things to do. Don't waste it!