I like being good, but I am not a Christian. Still I am pretty good. Losing my temper and causing harm to others is like out of my range of thinking. I just lost my temper a few days ago for the first time in like ten years. I felt shocked. It's just believing that I must love others as I love myself. It's what gives love reality in my opinion. People that clash with others often are missing out on our greatest experience. Too bad people actually hate themselves sometimes. This is probably where all the demons thrive.