You can't change a donkey into a horse.

I did not know exactly what I was doing, but then again sometimes I need to show that I am willing to take a chance.   Things can be changed and transformed when things are stuck can become unstuck and crap can get freed up for the manure.   In the situation I found myself it was too damn complex to be handled well.   Here is not to getting into complex situations and if I get into them just exit stage right instead of trying to deal with such a knot.   The point is that I did not get tricked and I feel that I see how tricky things can be.   No fool am I now or to be.