And that is how you know you love someone..

To really know

To be sad for an imagined suffering and want to help.

To really hurt over someone's hurt you are imagining

And know fully you may be imagining

And still can't stop the feeling

It is said by Heshle that care is the greatest virtue

Courage can be trained, patience and fortitude can be practiced

But care has an unknown element that is beyond the will

The mystery of care makes it special, and the greatest.